This year, I’m very focused on consumable Christmas gifts for our family. Let me explain why!
As most of you know, we had gotten to a point in life that we’d traded our gifts of toys and snuggly jammies for gifts like video and music equipment. I only kept a few toys around that I felt were worth saving for our future grandkids. AND THEN. Then God brought us more babies.
Woohoo and wow. The past two Christmases we have enjoyed building up our toy supply again. And not only that, for the first time ever, some of those toys are of the GIRLY variety.
Yeah, yeah, yeah – I know we shouldn’t put a gender label on toys for kids, but listen. My big boys never asked for a dollhouse for Christmas. Nor did they request baby dolls and lip gloss. Last year though, all of our little kids (both boys and girls) got a dollhouse. With a pink roof. The girls play lovingly with the dollhouse dolls and furniture. Meanwhile, the toddler boys strip the dollhouse dolls naked and send them sailing down the dollhouse staircase to see how far they’ll fly. Fun is had by all, so yes, dollhouses can be gender-neutral. But anyway…
This year, we don’t need many more toys.
As we’ve accumulated toys the past few years, we’ve also accumulated even more children. There are a lot of people living in our house – currently, ten to be exact. Lots of people take up lots of space, and so do their shoes, backpacks, clothes, and naked dollhouse dolls.
Also, our 7 and 6-year-olds struggle to share, put things away, and get mad when their “really important toy” that they leave out on the floor gets chewed on by a baby or hurled across the room by a toddler. I don’t want to give them more “stuff” that will ultimately create more conflict. So between that and the fact that – did I mention we have a lot of kids – this year, I’m very focused on:
Consumable Christmas Gifts
Am I only wrapping food and putting it under the tree this year? Nope! Not that kind of consumable. Though food and drinks definitely make great gifts and there will be some of that for sure!
As I’ve been planning for Christmas this year, I’ve been excited about how many items are really fun to open but can be used and not accumulated! Like craft projects. Office and school supplies. And yes, food and drinks.
DON’T TELL MY KIDS! But here’s what they’ll all be getting this year. It’s both fun and practical, and woohoo, not terribly expensive! Each person will get:
- Something to Make
- Something to Bake
- Something to Do
- Something to Chew
- Something to Drink
- Something with Ink
- Something to Wear
- Something to Share
Here are a few more details to help you understand what I’m planning:
- Something to Make -craft kits and supplies for the littles plus the adult girls, kitchen/foodstuff for the guys
- Something to Bake – fun muffin, cookie, or cake mixes (we almost never buy things like this so it will be a real treat for the kids!)
- Something to Do – a book to read, a game to play, a puzzle to put together
- Something to Chew – favorite snacks
- Something to Drink – hot cocoa, coffee, Martinelli’s, tea
- Something with Ink – new pens, markers, or sharpies
- Something to Wear – anything from clothes to gloves to socks, depending on what they need
- Something to Share – something they can use with the whole family (littles) or with friends at college and beyond (bigs)
There will be 14 of us at Christmas this year with Matt and me, all of our kids, plus the oldest two boys’ wives! I am having SO MUCH FUN putting all of these gifts together!!!
Tell me who you’re shopping for and what your gift plans are. This is so much fun!!!
Some more consumable gift ideas:
We go through cases of applesauce pouches at our house. But these Brainiac snacks are a step above and would make a great stocking stuffer that your family would consider a great treat! Get free shipping on orders over $35, which makes this even better!
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Men- flavored olive oils and garlic dill pickles; lounge pants and fun socks; donation to animal rescue
Women- scrub, candles, a painting experience, monogrammed yard flag (it’s Southern thing :)
Pets- Yummy treats
Kids- Books
Staff at work- restaurant gift cards
All purchases supported small/local business owners. Copper Pot and Wooden Spoon, Mast General Store, Wholly Goat Soaps and Such, Dog House Waynesville NC, Coffee Cup Cafe NC, Usborne Books (independent consultant), Wine and Design in Clayton NC, Feline Urgent Rescue of WNC, Monograced, Natural Gourmet (Herb Infused Cooking Oils).
Shopping for my son (our second year with him, as we just adopted him from foster care this year, but he was placed with us last year). At 12, he’s harder to shop for, but we settled on slime, skateboard stuff, a new (and the last time we do it) trombone, some food stuff (hot cocoa mug cookies, hot cocoa bomb, and some homemade mix), lip balm from Germany (Labello brand is our favorite), the second ornament of his Hallmark series (something my Mom still does for me), and some clothing items from our favorite band, twenty one pilots.
Husband is getting a joint gift because it was expensive (PS5 stuff), sister I have no idea, brother-in-law I have no idea, Mom was a concert ticket to see Dave Matthews Band in Chicago, plus a pair of handmade beach glass earrings snagged at the farmer’s market this summer, dad got a turntable already, so we’re just sending cash to my mom haha, father-in-law and his wife will get gift cards as they are out of state, mother-in-law no idea, aunt and cousins no idea, and grandparents a food gift card.
We’re not buying for friends this year, but I’m hoping to have the time to bake some stuff for them. We’re doing a small exchange with the cousin kids, 4 items from Dollar Tree (something red, something sweet, something to play with, and something that makes you think of them) for our Christmas party. Honestly, keeping it pretty simple this year, for us at least. We no longer exchange with a lot of family, too, because there are just too many of us anymore.
I would be absolutely content to not exchange, or draw names, and just spend the day together, honestly. Simplicity and time together is what I like the best. :)