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What is the Perfect Diet for Everyone?

April 3, 2018 by Laura 18 Comments

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I just wrote at length to share why my family eats a diet high in fat. The question is, is a high fat diet right for everyone? Is there one perfect diet for everyone?

During the past thirteen years, I’ve made healthy food my profession. I’m passionate about the subject and spend hours of time reading and learning from a variety of credible sources. Then I come up with recipes that are simple, tasty, and nourishing. Fun!

After all this time, I still find research that declares all fat to be unhealthy, especially saturated fat. I still find research that declares artificial sweeteners (like splenda and aspertame) to be a healthy option. I still find research that shows a diet high in white flour and white sugar to be heart-healthy. The trouble with these articles is that they don’t have credible data (in my opinion) to back their claims and ironically, most of these articles are written in an effort to promote synthetic drugs or manufactured “food” products.

Why have I concluded that a fats like butter and coconut oil, beef and eggs – all foods that are high in saturated fat – are healthy and beneficial? Read my thoughts about that here. But now the question of the hour…

What is the perfect diet for everyone?

Should we all eat high fat? Should we all go low carb? Is it best that we all cut out gluten? Perhaps we should all adopt the “everything in moderation” idea?

After all my years of research, and more importantly, after years of discussions with a variety of people with different needs and body types, I believe the perfect diet for everyone is:

The diet that nourishes.

The perfect diet for everyone is the one that nourishes.

I have friends who have serious health issues when consuming gluten. I know people who have to stay away from eggs and nuts entirely. I have met people who tell me that if they ate as much fat as I eat they would bloat and be miserable. I have a friend who has a fructose intolerance so all the healthy fruits in the world aren’t at all healthy for her.

Each person must determine what their body needs, what their body can handle, and what will keep them healthy and strong.

But if we aren’t eating food that nourishes, whether it is low carb, high fat, grain free, or otherwise, no matter our dietary needs or restrictions, we still aren’t offering our bodies food for good health.

As for my family, we can eat whole grains, dairy, fruits and vegetables, meat, eggs, and plenty of good, healthy fats. These foods keep us strong, energetic, and nourished. As for you and yours? Only you can determine what is healthy.

But remember: Healthy Food = Nourishing Food.

All the conflicting research we find might have us confused about what it really means to eat a healthy diet. And all the “my family eats this way and so should you” information we read can have us in a puddle of confusion.

So do your homework, and consider what nourishes. Learn what provides your family with energy, brain power, good health. Focus on eating food full of nutrients.

And one last thought:

Don’t feel bad about the occasional splurge. With all my talk about feeding my family real food that nourishes, you should know that sometimes we buy ice cream or chips from the store as a special treat and we don’t even feel bad about it. I don’t agree with the “everything in moderation” idea, because I think that lends itself to the mindset of eating whatever you want as long as you don’t overeat. This doesn’t necessarily promote a nourishing diet as an overall lifestyle. But eating a nourishing diet most of the time while occasionally splurging on a treat? You bet!

Now I’d like to hear from you! What kind of diet is nourishing for you and your family?

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Why We Eat a High Fat Diet (Is it Right for Everyone?)

April 1, 2018 by Laura 9 Comments

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Through my years of blogging, I’ve shared many a recipe filled with ingredients like butter, coconut oil, red meat, and eggs. Like to eat a high fat diet much, Laura? Why yes. We do.

Back in the 90’s when my big hair added three inches to my height (how proud am I to show off my senior pictures to my kids?) I was adamant about eating all things fat-free. I have nothing good to say about how food tasted back in those days, and I can’t even talk about fat-free Miracle Whip. Why, Kraft, why?!!

{Pauses for a moment to collect herself and remove the mayo memory from her mind and mouth…}

I vividly remember being afraid of fat. I was afraid of what it would do to my heart, but much more afraid of what it would do to my hips. So who cares that food tasted terrible? At least I’d be skinny and avoid heart problems, right?

Since those days, I’ve done hours and hours and hours of research and reading on the subject of healthy eating and good fats. It’s probably worth a mention that I’d done absolutely no research in the 90’s before declaring fat to be unhealthy. I’d heard that it was and I believed it, the end.

I am so thankful to have learned now that most of us need to eat good fat in order to stay alert and healthy. It might go without saying that I’m also thankful my hair doesn’t require a weekly bottle of hair spray, but back to the fat…

Why we eat a high fat diet

  • Healthy fats provide fuel for our brain and heart.
  • Healthy fats are carriers for fat soluble vitamins like A, D, E, and K.
  • Healthy fats help our bodies absorb minerals.
  • Healthy fats are satisfying and keep us feeling full longer.
  • And that’s just the beginning. Read more about healthy fats here.

It seems that good fats are essential for great health!

Since I started eating a diet high in healthy fats, my lab numbers have become better and better! Hello butter and beef; goodbye bad cholesterol! It’s interesting, isn’t it, that during my days of eating low fat foods my blood tests always revealed borderline unhealthy cholesterol levels. Could it have had anything to do with the eight cookies and liter of Pepsi I consumed every single day along with my fat free mayo and dry chicken?

It’s also worth noting that through the past 20 years, whether or not I was eating a low fat or a high fat diet, when I ate a diet high in sugar I would always gain pounds. Always. It would appear that sugar is sugar no matter how much fat one eats, and while our bodies might need a little natural sugar to function well (bring on the fresh fruit!), excess sugar doesn’t benefit us at all.

Want some Low Sugar Treat Recipes? Look through all of these!

My Favorite Healthy Fats

I give three cheers for a high fat diet for my family. But not all fat is created equal, so a diet high in unhealthy, processed fats is one to be avoided. If fat is naturally occurring, I say bring it on. Here are the fats I consider to be natural and healthy:

  • Coconut Oil
  • Real Butter
  • Full Fat Dairy
  • Full Fat Meats
  • Nuts
  • Avocados
  • Palm Oil
  • Olive Oil

But what about saturated fats?

Indeed, most of the favorite healthy fats I mentioned above are in the “saturated fat” category. Again, I’ll point you to this article written by a doctor who takes nutrition very seriously as he explains it better than I can. Here’s a helpful quote from the article by Dr. Mercola:

…you must be vigilant against hydrogenated vegetable and seed oils, which are unsaturated fats that have been artificially manipulated into saturated fats. These are also known as trans fats, which interfere with your insulin receptors and put you at risk of chronic diseases like cancer, heart disease and diabetes.

So I most certainly avoid the fats that have been manufactured to become saturated. Margarine is high on my no-no list. I rank it right up there with fat free mayo, and I think we all know how I feel about that.

Next up…

Is a high fat diet right for everyone? Is any one diet right for everyone? 

To be continued…

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Are Paleo, Gluten Free, Grain Free Diets a Fad? Healthy or Not Healthy? My Thoughts…

September 11, 2014 by Laura 31 Comments

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I decided it would make perfect sense for me to post about My Favorite Whole Wheat Recipes, and then follow it up the next day with a post about avoiding wheat and/or grains altogether. I like keeping you on your toes.

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Seeing as the Ultimate Healthy Living Bundle includes an entire section on Special Diets, I thought this might be a good time to address my thoughts on eating a gluten free, grain free, or paleo diet. Let’s chat, shall we?

A few weeks ago, I got this email from Deb:

I am just wondering what you think about all the gluten free, etc. rage? Some of my friends truly have celiac, but most just seem to be trying this as more of a fad, way to lose weight, etc. Don’t you think that the reason that they feel better is because they give up processed junk and sugar, not so much because of the actual gluten?

We just had a missionary stay with us from Australia, she is originally from Taiwan and has lived in Kenya as well. She says that Americans are the only ones who take supplements and vitamins and have all these food allergies. She thinks it is ridiculous to eat at McDonalds, then buy vitamins. She stayed with us 2 weeks and it was very interesting, even if she was out and about, she would NOT get fast food, she would go to the grocery and buy fresh meat and vegetables and come home and cook it, even though it costs more and was more time consuming. Also, a lot of my friends that are on these EXTREME diets cheat half the time anyway, so what is the point?

Ah yes. I too have watched people go from eating a basic diet of donuts, chips, fast food, and skittles – to eating a low fat or low-carb diet. They lose weight, feel better, and swear that the key is to cut out carbs, grains, gluten, eggs, beef, or butter.

Hey, hey, hey. Them’s fightin’ words to this girl. Nobody better be blaming my butter or beef on their poor health! Especially when we’re talking about the kind that comes from cows who are raised in a healthy environment. But enough about my beloved bovines. What is the healthiest way for all of us to eat?

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I hate to disappoint you, but I do not believe that there is a one-size-fits-all diet.  I believe real food, in balance, based on what your body can tolerate and thrive on is the right diet for you. Learn to listen to your body, and nourish it.

I love my beef, and in fact, I believe I personally need quite a bit of (grass fed, if possible) red meat in my diet in order to maintain a healthy level of iron in my body. You might not need much or any beef. You may not need much of any variety of meat. Okay by me – that means more cow for this girl. Learn to listen to your body, and nourish it.

While some can’t tolerate grains or gluten, I can. I can’t eat them in large amounts, and in fact, I believe most of us should cut back on the grains just to make more room in our diet for fruits and vegetables.  Learn to listen to your body, and nourish it.

Here are my Paleo, Gluten Free, and Grain Free thoughts in a nutshell:

  • When you give up processed foods and instead eat more wholesome, nourishing foods, you will feel better and look better. This has very little to do with the fact that the food might be gluten free, paleo, or grain free.
  • If you truly are allergic to a certain food or if a food makes you sick, by all means, you should not eat it.  You might want to check into NAET though. It is possible to re-program our bodies so that they no longer reject certain foods as allergens. My boys and I have experienced this, and it works. Where we used to have food allergies, we no longer do, praise God!
  • A Gluten Free label does not automatically make a food healthy.
  • Cutting down on grains is beneficial, especially if the majority of what you eat is grainy. Our bodies need a better balance, and grains can be difficult to digest. Bready foods should not be our main nourishment focus.
  • If we’re cutting down our grains, we should not replace them with loads of almond flour and coconut flour. I believe these flours are fantastic additions to our diets, and wonderful to use in baking – especially if your body can not tolerate grains. But to eat them by the pound every day? Well, what happened to balance?

Paleo, Gluten Free, and Grain Free diets can be healthy and beneficial. But if you’re focused on cutting out foods for the wrong reasons, and not focused on overall body nourishment – you’re right back where you started.

Share with me what you have found is best for you and your family when it comes to eating gluten and grains. Do you eat them? What grains are your favorites?

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Healthy Food Doesn’t Taste Good {No More Excuses!}

June 12, 2012 by Laura 35 Comments

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It’s an excuse I hear from many who choose not to eat a healthy diet – “Healthy food tastes nasty!”

I actually used to believe this myself. I thought that healthy food didn’t taste good, but like a “good girl”, I suffered through it anyway. This is because I had a completely different idea about what healthy food was. I thought that if I was cutting as much fat and calories out of my diet as possible, I was eating healthy food. What were these foods that I thought of as healthy? Fat free mayonnaise, fat free cottage cheese, dry chicken, and for a real treat – baked pieces of cardboard (otherwise known as “fat-free chips”) with low-cal salsa.

With all due respect to fat-free anything – yuck. Just…yuck. Unless, of course, it is naturally fat free. Apples don’t have fat and they still taste good. But that’s because God made them that way. Real food always tastes better when you eat it the way God made it. (Don’t get me started.)  But as soon as you start pulling the real stuff (fat, nutrients, etc.) out of a food and replacing it with chemicals to make it “healthy”, the taste of that food is forever altered and well…yuck.

Now, I don’t claim to be the best cook in the world. I have botched recipes, and scared my family and sometimes my guests with some doozies of dishes that just simply haven’t tasted good. But I’ve got to say, now that we’re eating a healthy, whole foods diet, using real food in its natural form – my food tastes so much better than it ever did compared to the days when we just ate whatever cheap, low fat, low calorie stuff I could find with coupons. (Have you ever put fat-free cheese in your enchiladas? I do not recommend it.)

Serve these Whole Wheat Cinnamon Rolls, and I bet no one would complain about eating healthier food. 
Really? These are made with whole wheat and honey? Yep.
  :)

Now, sit back and close your eyes. Let the deliciousness of the following food list help you know how wonderful healthy food really does taste. (Oh wait. You may need to open your eyes to read. My bad.)

  • Compare a chewy chicken nugget from a box, to a juicy beef roast with gravy, roasted potatoes, and carrots – and tell me healthy food doesn’t taste good.
  • Pull some hearty, homemade honey whole wheat bread out of the oven and slather it with (real!) butter – and tell me healthy food doesn’t taste good.
  • Whip some cream and plop some on top of fresh strawberries – and tell me healthy food doesn’t taste good.
  • Grill a steak, serve it with tossed green salad, and corn on the cob – and tell me healthy food doesn’t taste good.
  • Scramble some farm fresh eggs with some chopped tomatoes, peppers, and grated cheddar cheese – and tell me healthy food doesn’t taste good.

You can open your eyes now. ;)  I think I’m finished thinking of amazing, healthy food that tastes good, but I’m hungry right now, so no guarantees.

My point is – real food is healthy, and real food tastes incredibly good. In addition, it is satisfying, and makes your body feel good, since your body recognizes what you are feeding it when you are feeding it real food. It is delicious food and you feel great as a result. It’s a win-win situation.

Rich chicken broth with veggies and homemade noodles; fresh whole wheat biscuits right out of the oven dripping with honey; a peach right off the tree; garden fresh vegetables dipped in homemade ranch dip; whole grain pancakes with melted butter and real maple syrup….

Ahhhhh, real food. I love it. (And I should probably go eat some of it right now since I’m so hungry and delicious food is all I can think of…)

What are your favorite real foods?

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