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Pumpkin Pecan Pie Squares

November 18, 2008 by Laura 30 Comments

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I recently found this great recipe, then played with it and adapted it to create a healthier dessert! It is very tasty!! Simple and sweet – and just a little nutty (which are some of the exact characteristics I strive for in my life). ;)

I love the crust part the best. But I also love the filling the best. The topping was also very, very good. And of course, I always love the fresh whipped cream the best. Oh, such a great combination of lots of yummy tastes. Try it for yourself and see which part you like best!

Pumpkin Pecan Pie SquaresYum

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I was trying to go for a dollop of whipped cream…
but I can’t quite do a dollop.
Anybody out there good at a dollop?
(I think it’s fun to say the word dollop.)

Pumpkin Pecan Pie Squares

Pumpkin Pecan Pie Squares
 
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Author: Laura
Ingredients
  • CRUST:
  • 1 cup whole wheat flour
  • ½ cup oats
  • ¼ cup sucanat
  • ½ cup butter
  • FILLING:
  • ¾ cup sucanat
  • 2 cups pumpkin
  • 1 cup heavy whipping cream
  • 2 large eggs
  • 1 teaspoon cinnamon
  • ¼ teaspoon nutmeg
  • ½ teaspoon cloves
  • ½ teaspoon ginger
  • TOPPING:
  • ½ cup pecans, chopped
  • ¼ cup sucanat
  • Whipped cream
Instructions
  1. For Crust: Combine flour, oats, sucanat and butter. Mix until crumbly. Press on bottom of ungreased 13 x 9-inch baking pan. Bake for 15 minutes at 350 degrees.
  2. For Filling: Combine sucanat, pumpkin, cream, eggs and spices in large bowl. Beat at medium speed for 1 to 2 minutes; pour over crust. Bake for 20 minutes.
  3. For Topping: Combine pecans and sucanat in small bowl. Sprinkle pecan topping over filling. Continue baking for 20 to 30 minutes or until knife inserted in center comes out clean.
  4. Cool completely in pan on wire rack. Cut into bars. Top with whipped cream (just a dollop).
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If you recall, I don’t usually like recipes with nuts in them. I surprised myself by liking the pecan topping.

See? Everyone likes to be nutty every now and then…

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Homeschool Hubbub at Our House: Our Teaching Philosophy

November 11, 2008 by Laura 27 Comments

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We love reading books together. We love learning together.

We love stuffing the ourselves into our small bathroom with the light off, so that we can look into the mirror with a flashlight through prism glasses to see how color is dispersed through the light (and then laughing our tails off together because we are so crammed into the bathroom that we can’t open the door to get out without practically falling together into the bathtub.)

We don’t spend hours of our time filling out workbooks at our house. We used to and it didn’t work. It was grueling for the boys and I found myself nagging all day at them to finish their pages. Yeah, not so much a fun way to learn.

We want our boys to love learning. (Not that is always has to be fun…but we want them to be curious and creative and excited about learning new things.)  And we don’t want them to think that learning begins and ends with the opening and closing of a workbook or a textbook. We’ve begun to take more of an “un-schooling” approach to homeschooling over the past couple of years. (I’ll try to share more often some of the ideas we’ve used to teach our kids spelling and writing creativity and math and science…)

But beyond all of that…

Our family’s homeschool philosophy is that there are some things that are much more important than others:

Matt and I feel very strongly that teaching our boys to love and serve others is far more important than learning the states and capitals. We feel like teaching our boys about God’s kingdom is more important than learning all of the past presidents of the United States in chronological order. And we think that if they learn to be hard workers, but they don’t learn all the dates of history…we will not have failed as parents (or educators).

Our kids still learn all of these factual things…but we don’t focus on them nearly as much as we try to focus on spiritual matters and areas of the heart. Because of this philosophy…there are some days we don’t open very many books at all.

Some days our boys simply learn about life. And caring. And loving. And serving. And about being patient. And about how to talk to an elderly person. And about working hard until you are so tired you can’t see straight.

We’re constantly working to figure out all of this education stuff. And discipline stuff. And the most effective ways to train our kids to be like Jesus. Never have we been so thankful for grace as we have been as we raise our boys.

I’m very curious about what your opinions are on this subject (whether you homeschool or not).  If you do homeschool…what are some of your philosophies? Are you a workbook-y family? Does that work for you? What do you think are the most important things for our kids to know?

 

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Schedule Schmedule: Bible Time with the Kids

October 7, 2008 by Laura 16 Comments

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In this post about our schedule, I mentioned my struggle with being disciplined to have personal Bible study time. I appreciated your encouraging comments. I’m working to just schedule it in so that I’ll be more consistent about it. It’s not like I don’t have time…its just about DOING IT. 

Anyway, in the meantime, I wanted to tell you what works for our family Bible time. 

First, may I hop on my soap-box for a moment? (thank you) 

The responsibility of teaching the Bible to YOUR children does not belong to anyone but YOU. It is not up to their Bible class teachers or the ministers at your church or anyone else. The Bible tells PARENTS to train up their children in the way they should go. I think Bible classes are wonderful and I LOVE what my kids learn at church from their teachers.  BUT…if we let their Godly training END with Sunday morning and/or Wednesday night Bible classes…we’d be neglecting our duties as parents. It’s our job. Godly character training doesn’t begin and end at the church door. 

Okay, now that you know how I feel about that…I’ll sum up what works best for our family Bible training time in two words:

Meal.Time.

It’s a time we’re all sitting down together (ooh, another soap box)…and if the kids have food in their mouths, they are less likely to be talking (hopefully)…so they are able to focus their attention on you and listen.

For years we’ve had “Bible at Breakfast” time. It’s been a great way to start our day. We’ve done a variety of things from reading chapters from the Bible to reading through Egermeir’s Story Bible to reading short devotionals from books. 

Then, at lunch and dinner time, we do memory work. Usually, Daddy leads this and asks the boys to repeat after him as he works to teach them new verses. We’ve learned lots and lots of new verses this way…and it’s amazing what the littlest guys can learn just by repeating the verses over and over. Often now, Malachi (age 3) stands up in his chair with his hands on his hips (this is not the exact way Daddy does it, by the way) and says, “‘Peat after me!” and then he launches into the verse he’d like us to repeat. 

This has made our meal times even more memorable and filled with purpose. Hmm, you’ve gotta love that kind of nourishment!
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Homeschool Hubbub at our House: Ooh, I’m Just So Excited About this Book!!

September 9, 2008 by Laura 20 Comments

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First, can I just tell you how much I am learning during school time? Yes, me, the mom. The one who is the teacher. I’m pretty sure the kids are learning too, and that is…you know…the real point of home education. But I just love how much I’m learning too. Wow.

So now, let’s take a poll… When did you learn World History in school? And how much did you learn? 

Me? I had one semester of World History in high school and that was it. And I don’t remember anything about it. 

Just the thought of learning World History has always sounded very dry and boring and overwhelming to me. And it also sounded very dry and boring.

AND, I’ve always had such a hard time connecting Bible Times with World History. In my head (limited brain space that it is)…I’ve separated the two. Like there were Bible Times…and there were also Ancient Egyptian times…but I never could put them together.

THAT, my friends, is the reason I love this awesome set of books my boys and I are reading about World History!! They are written by Susan Wise Bauer and are called The Story of the World.

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Check it out here.

 

 

We are a little over half way through the first book in this four set series. They are so well written that my six year old is understanding it…my eight year old…my eleven year old…and yes this 35 year old mama. We’re all getting it! It all makes sense! The information is captivating and incredibly interesting! (Of course, it’s highly likely that the reason the boys are enjoying the book so much is because ancient times were so filled with fighting and wars and violence and swords…but whatever.)

The best part of these books? The author combines Bible Times and World History for me!! She writes about how Jacob and his sons came down to Egypt and made their home along the Nile and how the nation grew! And then about how things changed years later in Egypt and the Israelites became slaves and how Moses delivered the people. It all makes so much sense!! With dates and everything!

I just love this set of books, and my boys do too! So, I had to share that with you. If you’re a history buff then you know all this stuff already and you’re laughing at me…but I’m okay with that. I finally found a book that makes World History make sense to me! 

I just may be able to be on Jeopardy yet. 

(Yeah, that was a joke. But you didn’t have to laugh that hard.)  ;)

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Listen to the Apple Tree

September 2, 2008 by Laura 23 Comments

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Today, I must draw your attention to the apple tree. Just a common, regular apple tree. The kind that grows in many a back yard and makes…apples. That’s what it does. That’s what it’s job is. To produce sweet, crisp, delicious apples. Every year at almost the exact same time each year.

Most years, an apple tree will produce a pretty decent harvest of apples.

And some years, the apple tree will produce so many apples, that it seems that there’s more apples on it than leaves. It will sometimes be so full of apples that some of the branches will break off and fall to the ground because of the heavy load of apples on it. And we say to each other, “Wow…that apple tree sure had a good year!”

But that very next year, that very same apple tree may not produce even one apple. Not one.

Because guess what? Apple trees need to rest. They can not continue year after year after year to produce tons and tons of apples without occasionally just sitting out a year and letting the other apple trees produce the apples for the people.

And after a year of rest, an apple tree can come back the following year and produce a great crop of sweet, crisp, delicious apples again.

That, my friends, is the way God designed…apple trees. :)

So, for all of us “apple trees” out there who think we must do all and be all and look all and take all and show all and have all – all at the same time – we’re not really being a very healthy apple tree.

If you are at a season in your life that you have more time to do more and be more beyond your home and family responsibilities, then by all means, please be the apple tree that has a bumper crop.

But if you have a husband and/or children, or other family members that need you, then enjoy serving and loving and caring for and being with them. Because that is enough.

And if your “apple tree” needs to take time off to rest…then please do rest. You will be able to produce more apples later, after you have rested.

It is simply not up to you or me alone to make sure everyone always has enough apples to eat. Sometimes, I can sit back and focus on other priorites and let other people produce the apples for a while. And then when it’s my time again, I can let others rest while I produce apples.

And those, my friends, are my extremely profound thoughts about apple trees.

And that, my extended family who live in other states, is why you no longer receive adorable handmade birthday cards from me anymore. (And why you’re lucky to even receive a phone call…four to seven days after your birthday.)  ;)

So while I still don’t have a complete understanding of what all I should be doing and what all I should be taking a rest from…I do know that absolutely my most important job and focus is my husband and our four boys and taking care of our home.

I guess I’m “pruning back my branches” so that I’ll be able to give more of the best of me to my family. And God is helping me figure out which branches to prune.

Okay, now I’m going to go eat an apple. Which has nothing to do with my profound thoughts about the apple tree, except for the fact that thinking profound thoughts made me hungry.

Anybody else need to prune back a little? And if so…what kinds of things can you prune back?

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Getting Real With Food, Pt. 7: Where to Start

July 15, 2008 by Laura 22 Comments

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If you’ve missed the other posts in this series…you can go back and read them here!

Today, I really just want to offer encouragement to all of you who want to eat healthier but don’t know where to start. Or to all of you who don’t want to eat healthier, but know that you should anyway. Or to all of you who are overwhelmed about changing your eating habits, but are trying very hard. Or to all of you who have picky eaters in your house. (Does that about cover everyone?)

I think that when many of us think about eating healthier…we feel like we have to give up all the yummy things we enjoy. We feel like we’re trading in rich ooey-gooey tasty foods for dry, bland rice-cakey fiber filled ickiness. 

Please believe me when I tell you that since we’ve started eating healthier foods…we’ve discovered truly how delicious food can be.

The food is delicious because we’re eating REAL FOOD!!!! Do you hear me? REAL FOOD I say!!

Just think for a second…Which sounds more delicious: A juicy pot roast cooked with carrots and potatoes, served with gravy…or a chicken nugget dumped out of a box? There is NO COMPARISON! Real food tastes SO GOOD! 

Here are a few ideas I will offer you to help you know where to start if you want to Get Real With Food:

1. Begin by thinking about what is a real, whole food and what isn’t. I’ll cover this in more depth in another post soon, but in the meantime, think back to the basics (meat, milk, grain, vegetable, fruit). All food starts out real…but some of it…by the time it goes through several machines to make it become whatever it is in a package…is nothing like it’s original form. (What in the world makes a piece of corn become a Cheeto anyway?) 

2. Start looking at the ingredients on a package. If you don’t recognize several of the ingredients….you may want to re-consider eating it. I’d so much rather eat something with the ingredients:  milk, eggs, vanilla….than something with the ingredients:  calcium and sodium stearoyl, lactylate, ethoxylated mono- and diglycerides… I have no idea what those last ingredients are. But one thing for sure…they are not food in it’s original form. They were produced from something to become something else.

3. Here are some small things you can change that are practically painless. (In fact…I bet you’ll find yourself really enjoying these changes because remember…real food tastes better!)

*Make brown rice instead of white.
*Use real butter instead of margarine.
*Make a transition from baking with white flour, to baking with whole wheat flour.
*Begin cooking a simple breakfast instead of opening a box of cereal or a box of poptarts. There are so many yummy breakfast foods that are….real.
*Drink more water instead of sugar-filled drinks.

Okay…I think that’s enough for today. Don’t feel overwhelmed…just pick even one thing and make a change. Any change is better than no change. I really want to help you see how delicious these changes can be!

You can do this! You can eat a healthy diet and serve healthy foods to your family!

I can’t wait to share more. I have loved all the emails and comments I’ve been receiving from all of you who are searching for a healthier lifestyle! Keep them coming. Bring on the questions! 

I’ll continue to share some ideas of small changes you can make in your diet to become more healthy…and I’ll share some of the reasons why you should make these changes. (Why is brown rice better than white anyway?! If I shouldn’t drink pop…what can I drink? I thought margarine had less cholesterol? Should I eat organic, or not?) (And oh, so much more…)

Please stay tuned… :)

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Don’t Believe the Lies!

July 8, 2008 by Laura 11 Comments

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Last weekend at our family reunion…two of my cousins and I were visiting and sharing about some of our recent struggles. 

We talked about how in the midst of our struggles….Satan is going to tell us lies.

Lies that he really wants us to believe. Lies that make us doubt what we know to be truth. Lies that cause us extreme pain. Lies that break our hearts and challenge our faith.

Even though we know God’s truth…when we’ve been hurt or when tragedy occurs in our lives…the lies can cover up the truth and take over our minds and hearts.

Which is exactly what Satan wants.

And we usually don’t even recognize it.

So my cousins and I talked about how we need to ask God to expose the lies. 

And then we need to listen.

Just listen…so that our eyes can be opened to see and understand what the lies are.

Because when we know what the lies are…we can re-learn what the truth is.

What God’s truth is.

We are whole. We are loved. We are taken care of. 

God never fails us. 

God IS truth.

And the Truth will set us free. 
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Spinach? I Don’t See Any Spinach…

July 1, 2008 by Laura 65 Comments

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Whatever you do…don’t look through the ingredients in this slushy and get all freaked out because there’s spinach in it. Don’t do it. Just relax.

There’s nothing to freak out about. I promise you can’t taste the spinach….and this slushy is so refreshing and delicious you won’t even know what hit you.

The first time I made these, I was just messing around trying to come up with a yummy way to get more raw greens into our diet. I figured they’d turn out some ugly brown color, since I was mixing red, yellow and green together. I just hoped I’d be able to make my family look past it and enjoy the fruity taste.

But instead, they turned out to be a beautiful deep red color…and tasted like fruity heaven. So even though you KNOW there’s spinach in them because you made them and put it there yourself, you will forget all about it while you sit down with a spoon and eat this slushy that tastes better than anything I’ve eaten this entire summer.

Try these!!!

Strawberry Peach SlushiesYum

2 cups frozen strawberries
1 cup frozen peaches
1 cup raw mixed greens or spinach
5-8 drops stevia (more if you like)
1 cup water

Put all ingredients into blender. Process until everything is mixed and becomes slushy.

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And see what my blender did? It made that pretty swirl thingy. My boys beg for me now to show them the pretty swirl thingy everytime I make these.

Strawberry Peach Slushy

These have become one of our favorite side dishes….or sometimes they are our breakfast. WE LOVE THESE SLUSHIES!

Please, oh please, try them. :)

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Hurry Up and Get Your Kids in the Kitchen!

June 24, 2008 by Laura 7 Comments

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You know how I often talk about how important it is to get your kids in the kitchen with you?!

I have just proven myself completely and totally and absolutely right about the whole thing. (Just in case we had been wondering about that.)

I’ve been sick the past few days…but everyone around here still wants to eat. Don’t they know that when mama is sick, the world must stop until I wake up and feel better?  Huh-uh…it just doesn’t happen.

I have NEVER been so thankful that I’ve taught my kids their way around the kitchen. Daddy’s doing great taking over in there, but sometimes he’s not home when the boys are hungry. Or when I need something to eat. AND, Daddy has been working hard trying to juggle all his work and mine too. How nice for the boys to get a meal started so that he doesn’t have to come home and do all the cooking too.

My boys aren’t at the point where I can just turn them loose in the kitchen and tell them to whip up some spaghetti. But because of all the time they’ve spent in there learning and working with me, they can go in there and do the whole thing with me just laying on the couch telling them what to do. I’m so proud of them.

So just in case you’ve been meaning to do it, but you haven’t yet…here’s my Works for me Wednesday tip:  Get your kids in the kitchen with you so that when you need them to take over, they can!!!  (Here, I’ve written an entire series on it.)  Read it then do it. It’s important for their future, and someday when you’re sick and need your kids to bring you something besides a box of cereal with a plastic fork, you’ll really be glad you did. (Yesterday I walked Asa through making us some awesome fruit slushies that totally hit the spot with me. He did great!!)

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For the record this Works for me Wednesday…being sick….does not work for me. To quote my youngest, Malachi, “My don’t love it.” :) 

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Learning to be a Happy Loser

June 10, 2008 by Laura 16 Comments

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Remember how I told you that we love playing card games around here…especially in the summer time?

Well…you know when you play a game with your kids…someone’s gonna lose. It’s how a game works. There are winners and there are losers. 

(And I’m SO NOT gonna let my kids win just to save their sweet little hearts from being broken. I’m way too competitive much more interested in teaching them about real life.)

So, here’s what we’ve found that really works for us!

If you are the loser of the game…you get to stand up and do the “I Lost the Game Dance.” Bust out some moves. Break dance if you want. You’re the one who lost. You’re the one who’s earned the privilege of doing the loser dance. None of the rest of us winners get to do it. We have to just sit there on our boring little bottoms with our big pile of winning cards and watch you have fun doing your version of the “Loser Dance”. 

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I’m telling you…this system has been a perfect way to take away the sadness of losing a card or board game. Instead of being sad, as soon as a game ends, the loser hops right up and start “showing us what they’re made of”. Then we all have a nice round of giggles together before we re-shuffle and start another game.

(Don’t you dare even ask what it looks like when Mama is the loser. I don’t-got-much in the way of “moves”. Bless my heart.)

Oh yeah…and if we’re playing “Old Maid”…the one who ends up losing with the Old Maid card at the end has to do their Loser Dance in Granny Style. With an old maid look on their face …and a walking stick…and arthritis. It’s beautiful.

Alright, we’re getting ready to play Go Fish. I’d better go stretch out.

;)

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