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Gratituesday: The Grammy Jammies

September 16, 2013 by Laura 19 Comments

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We’ve started experiencing some fall weather around here, which has had our boys digging in boxes and drawers for long-sleeved PJs to sleep in. Malachi appeared one evening in my very favorite pair of all of his jammies, and shucks if I didn’t immediately have to drop everything I was doing and squeeze the life out of him for several minutes.

What’s so special about this pair of pajamas? Well first of all, I think we can agree that kids in pajamas are about the snuggliest and cutest around. So any pair of PJs on my kids makes my heart flop. But it just so happens that this particular pair of jammies was worn by all four of our boys. All of them.  Asa got them as a gift when he was about five years old. He wore them for a couple of years, then when he outgrew them, they became Justus’. Then Elias inherited them. Now Malachi is wearing them.

Let’s all pause a moment and recognize with amazement that such a well made article of clothing exists, and that it has survived in our house through eleven years and four boys without being torn, stained, lost, hung on a flag pole, used as a sling shot, or stretched across the hallway to create a catapult. Indeed, for an entire decade, we have somehow kept track of both the top and the bottom of this matching set of sleepwear, and the elastic is not stretched to the size of Santa. If only we could pass down tennis shoes in this way. Shoot, I’d even settle for a pair of shoes that last through one season and one boy without the sole flopping off or the toe poking through or the foot growing by three sizes in one afternoon. But anyway…

Malachi was thrilled to hear that what he was wearing had been worn by all of his brothers, even the one who is now well over six feet tall. All of the boys chimed in with “oh yeah, I remember those pajamas.” We all inhaled deeply, joined hands, and enjoyed a moment together as we gazed at each other with tears in our eyes. By that I mean that the pajama conversation lasted about four seconds because the boys quickly moved on with life by sticking their heads in the fridge to find something else to eat before bed.

But I wasn’t quite ready to let it rest. “Asa,” I asked, “Do you remember who gave you those?”

He hesitated, because as I said, he had already moved on to thinking about his cheese stick and the pajama conversation was so thirty seconds ago. But then he remembered. “Oh yeah. It was Grammy wasn’t it?”

Indeed. My mom had picked those out for her firstborn grandson. She had no idea at the time that the pajamas would make their way through four growing and busy boys. And we had no idea how special they would become someday – worn so many years later by the grandson who never had the privilege of meeting her.

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Who knew a simple pair of pajamas would be such a treasure?

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Gratituesday: The College Class

September 9, 2013 by Laura 27 Comments

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Our oldest son is taking his first college class.

asaWe’ve homeschooled Asa since he began kindergarten (yesterday). We decided that now that he is a junior in high school, helping him get a few college credits under his belt while giving him some classroom experience would be ideal for him. The classes he takes at the college while he’s a high school student will serve as dual credit classes (meeting requirements for both high school and college). Sweet! Plus, as a high school student, he receives a healthy discount on one class per semester at our local college. Saving money, knocking out a few classes, starting college in two years with several credits already out of the way? It’s all good.

I really didn’t give it much thought at first. We filled out all the paperwork to get him enrolled. Sure, it was weird helping him fill out a college application already (he’s 16) – but we had a plan and we were ready to execute. He was ready. Application accepted, class chosen, necessary information obtained. He was to be at his Basic Speech class on the York College campus on Tuesday, August 24 at 8:30 am.

It wasn’t until I dropped him off the first day and saw him walking across campus – the very campus I walked across during my four years of college, the campus where I met Matt, the campus that holds so many dear memories – that I forgot how to breathe. When did he get so tall-smart-handsome-mature-grown up? Overnight, I promise.

It’s a great feeling, knowing that he’s able to handle a college level course. So far, he’s rockin’ this class. He’s off to a great start! :)

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Gratituesday: Bonus Day

September 2, 2013 by Laura 7 Comments

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Until last night, I had completely forgotten that Monday was a holiday. As a homeschooling (school anytime, anywhere) and self-employed (work anytime, anywhere) family – holidays like Labor Day don’t usually mean that much to us (until we try to figure out why we didn’t get any mail).

As it turned out, Matt had a day off from soccer with the college team, so he was home most of the day getting caught up on other work. We didn’t do school work officially – although I kept catching my eleven year old reading science books in his spare time. :)  We caught up on laundry, thoroughly cleaned the kitchen, and for a little while this afternoon – I sat on the porch soaking in the sun and having extra time with God (and then with Malachi who came outside to see what I was up to). A couple of college students came to join us for our grilled bbq chicken dinner, some of us played cards until bedtime, and in general, we enjoyed a low-key day.

Since I’d forgotten we didn’t have any major outside responsibilities today, it was like being given a bonus day. Now, instead of starting a new work/school week on Monday, we’re starting on Gratituesday. How ’bout that?

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Gratituesday: Pruning

August 26, 2013 by Laura 11 Comments

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For my post today, I really want to type the entire chapter of John 15 and say that those words are what I am thankful for. Instead, I’ll encourage you to open your Bible and read them, chew on them, and let them teach you whatever it is you might need to learn.

I’ve been experiencing a lot of pruning in my life recently. It hurts. But it hurts in a way that brings joy. Never can I experience true joy until I let God pull from me what is keeping me from being whole. The pruning is painful. The end result is beauty.

Every time I try to serve, love, or make a decision on my own, God reminds me (with his gentle pruning) that without Him, I am a frustrated, exhausted, confused mess. “…apart from me you can do nothing” is what Jesus tells us in John 15:5. Yes, Lord, you are right.

And so, because I continually need to learn so that I can become more fruitful, I am very thankful for the pruning I receive. Is it unfruitful, Lord? Then please chop it off, cut it out, throw it away. I know it will sting. I will likely be sore. I may have to rest while I heal. But get rid of it. I just want to be fully yours.

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Gratituesday: Soccer Girls With Paintbrushes

August 19, 2013 by Laura 4 Comments

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I’ve always loved cooking for them. Preparing hearty and healthy meals that fill the college soccer girls in the midst of hard core pre-season training has always been a joy. Blessing them by giving them home cooked meals – especially for those who are away from home for the first time – has always been my goal.

But I have to say, this year a little extra love has been stirred into the gravy. Why? Because this year, the team is returning the blessing by helping us paint our house. Truly, I don’t need anything more from them than their “thank you so much, this food is awesome” and I don’t even need those words of affirmation since their smiles say it all. But since helping us paint worked into their pre-season schedule (team bonding with paint brushes!) – I couldn’t be more pleased.

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Here was this morning’s crew. Another eight will show up tomorrow, and then Wednesday…

For several mornings this week, the army of girls will come ready to work – after their morning workout and before their afternoon practice and wow these girls are tough, hard workers. This is why they need loads of good food. :)

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: I’m so thankful that our family can be a part of the lives of these young women. They’re great with a soccer ball at their feet, and have proven themselves to be quite handy with a paint brush. Blessings all around!

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Gratituesday: Nineteen Years and Counting

August 12, 2013 by Laura 31 Comments

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It’s our wedding anniversary this Gratituesday!

What I am actually most excited about this year is that while soccer season has usually already started by the time our anniversary rolls around, this year it begins the day after. Wasn’t that thoughtful of the calendar to work with us this year? (Remember our 17th anniversary? While we couldn’t be together that day since Matt was away at a pre-season soccer retreat, I think that still may be one of my favorite anniversary memories.)

This year, we get to be together! And so, we’ll spend our special day schooling the kids, working on our rental properties, painting our house, doing everything we can to get ahead so that our busiest season of the year will go more smoothly. Then come evening, we’ll steal away without the kids to use a gift card at a local restaurant, and enjoy time to eat together and have real and uninterrupted conversation.

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Soccer season? Bring it on. But the evening before during our special date time? It’s all about us. 19 years and looking forward to many more!

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Gratituesday: Perfectly Imperfect

August 5, 2013 by Laura 19 Comments

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We took our traditional school shopping trip last Friday. I gave up on making them pose for a picture and just snapped one when I had the chance. Here’s a post with all of our past shopping trips through the years.

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Today was our first day of school for the year. It’s easy to have grand ambitions about what all we’ll get done, about how we’ll be so much better about XYorZ this year, and most of all, about how we’ll stick to our schedule and it will work flawlessly.

Y’all, I didn’t even make a schedule this year. (And apparently, suddenly I’m southern.)

I came to the conclusion that thoroughly praying over our school year was more important than thoroughly organizing it. This year we have an 11th grader, an 8th grader, a 6th grader, and a 3rd grader. I knew that attempting to schedule our day on paper wouldn’t have worked, and in fact, this year, I didn’t even have time to get all the books organized on the shelves. We woke up anticipating our “perfect 1st day of school” with piles of books scattered in the living room, unfolded (but clean) baskets of laundry in the unvacuumed hallway, and plenty of unsharpened pencils. None of us had found the time to upload software to computers so that Math and Spanish lessons could be started right on schedule. Oh wait – there was no schedule. Well then.

This isn’t my ideal – or at least it didn’t used to be my ideal when I first started homeschooling twelve years ago. I had preferred to begin our school year with the house perfectly clean, the school books and lists perfectly organized, the meals in the fridge ready to cook themselves, and me – perfectly put together with children who were awake and grinning at the table at precisely when the schedule said they would/should be. And then when something when wrong, because it always did, I’d feel like I’d failed.

Y’all, I’m over it. (Figured since I said it once, I should say it twice.)

There is no perfect homeschool day – except for the perfectly imperfect ones like we experienced today. Today, we got a decent start, but took too long discussing the first chapter of the book of Acts – which was not on the schedule that I didn’t write but isn’t that grand because why put down the Bible for a Math lesson? We had trouble getting Spanish to work correctly on the computer, couldn’t find the Typing CD, and forgot to thaw meat for dinner.

Not to worry, Dad got Spanish working, Justus found the Typing CD, and I made tomorrow night’s Salmon Patties for dinner tonight.

At the end of the day, all of our boys are now engrossed in a great new book they started today, they are standing taller because they accomplished so much, and they feel good about tomorrow since we worked out so many kinks today. Everyone is relaxed, unexpected interruptions didn’t ruin the day, we all had some good laughs (you can’t help it in the Coppinger household), and you’d better believe, we will all sleep well tonight.

Today was my favorite kind of day. Here’s to a perfectly imperfect school year.

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Gratituesday: Oh, I Remember Now

July 29, 2013 by Laura 12 Comments

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This has been one great and busy summer so far. Our two younger boys went to visit grandparents for a few days, then spent lots of time here at home playing with friends. Our two older boys went on a mission trip and to camp for several weeks. As a family we went on a service trip, then later to camp for a week. In the midst of it all, we have had lots and lots of company. What great opportunities God provided for the six of us this summer!

With all of the fun and craziness, I had almost started to forget what “normal” was. How many plates do I get out for each meal? How much food should I fix? It was different every day, depending on which boy was where, how many extras we had, and truly, by the middle of July, I just gave up figuring it out and just started grabbing a big pile of plates, replacing those left unused at the end of each meal. Food portions? I gave up on that too, and found that if I had too much, leftovers were welcome. If I didn’t have enough? I’d make it stretch by slicing up extra fruit or setting out veggies with ranch.

As of Saturday, we are now back to all six of us and just the six of us. It’s quite wonderful. Stories of what happened at camp, and oh yeah remember when we were painting houses on the mission trip, and has anybody seen the book I started reading back in May conversations fill the house. I’m back to making triple batches of waffles, knowing that this will be just the right amount.

At this very moment, I hear my boys playing Sting Pong upstairs. Sting Pong, you ask? Yes. You see, Ping Pong is sooooo regular. Why not see if we can smack the ball at each other from across the table to see who gets the biggest welt? Why??? Why do boys do this stuff?? Beats me, but they are laughing and proudly showing off the circle shaped rings on their skin. “It doesn’t really hurt that bad, Mom. And we need to get used to it for when we play Paint Ball at Dads-n-Lads in September.” Uh-huh, I’ll just stay downstairs and make waffles.

I remember now what it was like to have all of my family home together at the same time. Bliss.

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Gratituesday: Ah yes, this…

July 22, 2013 by Laura 12 Comments

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Well, here we are. At church camp. With the frogs. And the locusts. And those one things with a bunch of legs.

All bugs aside (and under my chair), I can tell from just one day of being here that church camp is exactly where God wants us to be this week. I’m watching our oldest son love his life as a camper. I’m watching our three other boys jump right in with their kitchen and canteen duties. I’m seeing Matt engage in meaningful conversation with youth and young adults. I’m experiencing God’s work through me as a teacher to teenage girls. And I am beginning to form relationships that I believe will be very important this week and into the future.

All I can say, is that this – this is the joy we experience when we listen to and obey God. That is why I’m here – me, the one who doesn’t “do camp.”  God called me here for so many reasons. It is rich. It is beautiful.

And shucks, I haven’t had to cook a meal or wash a dish since I arrived. It’s a vacation, service opportunity, growing experience all in one. :)

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Gratituesday: I Miss My Boys

July 1, 2013 by Laura 8 Comments

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It’s been quite the summer around here. We have had (and currently have) company. We are painting our house and getting other major projects done. We’ve traveled here and there. Through it all, our oldest two boys have been gone more than they have been home. We did have them home for two weeks in June and treasured every minute of it. (We also handed them a paint brush.)

When we signed them up for their activities this summer, we knew what we were doing. We knew that they were making big commitments and that they would be away from home quite a bit. But we also knew that what they were signing up for was exactly what they should be doing with their time. They went on a mission trip, and now will be at church camp either as a counselor/staff or as a camper for the next four weeks.

Our boys are growing up. They are becoming leaders and growing in their relationship with the Father. We are so proud of them.

As I was thinking of them this morning and praying for God’s protection of them and guidance while they are at camp, I realized how much I miss my boys. It occurred to me what a blessing it is that my kids are so great that when they are away from me – I really miss them. It’s not a relief to have them gone. I don’t welcome the break. I really miss them.

At the same time, I’m joyful and grateful for all they are blessed to experience this summer. I’m pretty sure this is God’s way of helping to prepare me to let them go in a few years. Oh but never mind. Let’s not talk about that yet.

God, take care of my boys and continue to draw them closer to you as they develop a more personal relationship with your Son. What a privilege it is to raise kids to love the Lord!

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