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Baking and Cooking to Get Ahead All Weekend (And Still Standing to Tell About it)

January 31, 2010 by Laura 25 Comments

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I did it. Everything on the list…I got it done. By Friday late afternoon, I started to feel completely wiped out and didn’t think I could do it. Then I remembered that I needed to eat something.  Somehow because I’d been in the kitchen all day around food, my brain figured I had already eaten dinner even though I hadn’t. After I ate, I got a second wind and checked several more items off the list. Saturday I finished up and well…I’m still alive and able to tell about it.

Let’s start with a few picture highlights shall we?

frozenfoodsmHere we have a box of frozen meat, butter and fruit. As I took this picture, one of the boys asked me if I was making a movie of the meat. I said, no of course not, because making a movie of frozen meat would just be weird. Taking a still picture? That’s not weird at all.

corndogmuffins,strawberrybread,cookiebars,casseroles,tortillassm Here was the result of round one of cooking/baking. I made the Chocolate Chip Cookies into bars to save time. I browned up all eight pounds of the ground venison and beef at the same time. We sliced into some of the Strawberry Bread because how could we not? The Corn Dog Muffins turned out ugly with all of their hot dogs exposed. The Cheesy Beef and Rice, Lasagna Casserole and Beefy Enchilada Bake went together easily. And that bowl with the cloth? That’s Whole Wheat Tortillas soaking for burritos.

burritos,tortillas,grahamcrackers,sloppyjoes,chilsmThis is a picture of what I got done Friday night after I got my second wind. I already had the meat browned, so I cooked my beans and put some of the meat into a jar of chili. I stirred up three jars worth of Sloppy Joes. I stuck Graham Crackers into the oven. Then I made my Tortillas and finished up a big pan of Meat and Cheese Burritos. I was happy to have leftover tortillas for quesadillas. I put everything away and staggered up to bed.

pizzapockets,bread,chicken,zuchbreadsmSaturday, I baked Zucchini Bread and Honey Whole Wheat bread. One of those loaves up there was made into Cinnamon Swirl Bread. Oh dear…which one is it? Last but not least, I put together Pizza Pockets and one batch of Popcorn Chicken.

Based on the assumption that you may have several questions for me about how I did all of this…I took the liberty to interview myself. 

Me:  How long did it take you to make all of this stuff?

Me again:  I started on Friday afternoon about 1:00 and cooked/baked/wash dishes until 9:30 that night (with a two hour break to run a couple of errands and feed the boys). Then, I started Saturday morning again around 9:00 and finished the last of the list around 3:00. 

Me:  What were your boys doing the whole time you were working in the kitchen?

Me again:  You mean besides asking me 34 times each if they could eat all the food I was making? Well, I had a list of several house cleaning chores I needed them to do, which they did ever so cheerfully and whistling whilest they worked. Yeah. Beyond that, both days we had extra kids here to play…so they all spent hours running through the house shooting nerf guns and playing hide and seek and making lego movies and eating the food I actually let them eat. Remember, my kids are five, eight, nine and twelve…I don’t think I could have pulled all this off in two days with littler ones.

Me:  When you put all the food into the freezer, how’d you do it? Have any cool storage tips?

Me again:  You mean besides standing on my head with my foot in the freezer trying to hold the frozen hamburger in while I stuffed one last loaf of zucchini bread in before everything fell out? I first tried Amy’s/Tammy’s frozen casserole method…except that I used parchment paper and it didn’t work very well. I then just resorted to using up most of my pyrex casserole dishes with lids. Matt surprised me with these for Christmas, so I had plenty.

I used freezer bags for the quick breads and cookies. Also, for the popcorn chicken, burritos and pizza pockets…I flash froze them on cookie sheets, them transfered them to freezer bags to save space.

Me:  How long will all of this food last you?

Me again:   Hard to tell. We’ll be eating quite a few of these items this week, since we have quite a few activities that will require warming up a quick meal before we leave or as soon as we get home. I’d really like to just leave a couple of the casseroles and loaves of quick bread in the freezer for a time when I’m in desperate need for a quick meal. Plus, it’s nice to have items like this on hand for a time when company comes over unexpectedly or when I need to take a meal to someone else.

With the amount of time it took me to make the food I made this weekend…and the amount of food my family can consume in one week…I can’t IMAGINE trying to pull off the OAMC (once a month cooking). Maybe I just don’t know enough about it, but trying to cook the majority of our meals for one entire month within a couple of days time…I think I’d pass out cold. 

Me:  How would you rate your bulk cooking/baking experience overall, 10 being the best?

Me again:  I’d give it an eight. I mostly loved it. It was a VERY productive two days and I actually feel like I got ahead a little bit. One thing I struggled with during this whole thing:  I have a tendency to be very task-oriented. I get into “get-it-done” mode and forget to stop and smile at my children and husband and say nice things because “oh my word, I have so much to get done so don’t bother me”. I caught myself doing that and had to make a real conscious effort to remember that my “to-do-list” was just a “try-to-list” not a “have-to-list”. 

Me:  So, did you actually get around to experimenting with homemade Catch-Up (ketchup) ?!

Me again:  Why yes as a matter of fact I did. Would you like to hear about it sometime?
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Menu Plan for the Week

January 31, 2010 by Laura 12 Comments

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As I’ve been cooking and baking my way through the weekend, trying to get ahead…if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:  My Freezers Are REALLY Full!

I AM NOT COMPLAINING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   This is one of the most blessed problems to have!!! Freezers…PLURAL…are full. I am so thankful. 

But here is my “problem”. One of my freezers is full of frozen fruits and veggies that I put up during the summer and fall. Remember all those strawberries we got?  Many of them are still in the freezer. I put them in there so we could eat them the whole year through. Um, hello Laura? That would be now.

But the problem with having frozen strawberries in the winter is that frozen strawberries are…cold. Go figure.

It’s time to let go of the cold factor and the fact that I tend to like to keep food stocked away for “when we need it”. Come on Laura…get out the frozen strawberries and EAT THEM. That’s what they’re for!!!

So…working to get over it (and because I really needed freezer space for all my other goodies), all weekend we were munching on partially frozen strawberries. YUM! The trick? Just do a few jumping jacks in between bites…then go wash dishes in hot water. You’ll warm up eventually.

Beyond just eating them out of the bags, I’m going to be very focused on making lots of slushies and smoothies.  This is the point of winter that we always feel lacking in fresh fruits and vegetables.  Bring on the smoothies.

AND…of course I’ll add the Antioxidant Omega 3 Greens from Tropical Traditions to give us even more nutrition.  Want to win some?

Here’s our menu for the week:

Sunday, January 31
Oatmeal, pears
Cheesy beef and rice, green beans
Nachos, mixed fruit slushies

Monday, February 1
Simple soaked pancakes, blueberries
Potato soup, carrot sticks, yogurt-fruit smoothies
Baked fish, stir fried rice and veggies

Tuesday, February 2
Whole wheat and honey zucchini bread, applesauce
Creamy mac and cheese, peas
Venison stew, corn bread muffins

Wednesday, February 3
Cinnamon swirl bread, canned peaches
Chili with cheese, carrot sticks, apples
Bean and rice bowls, kefir fruit smoothies

Thursday, February 4
Scrambled eggs, turkey bacon, oranges
Melting snowflakes, apples, bananas
Sloppy cornbread, tossed salad, strawberry-peach slushies

Friday, February 5
Giant breakfast cookies, applesauce
Meat and cheese burritos, fresh pineapple
Homemade pizza, fruit salad

Saturday, February 6
Warm chocolate soother, homemade crunchy oat cereal
Leftover buffet
Lamb chops, baked potatoes, steamed broccoli and cauliflower

Stay tuned for pictures and details about how our weekend went with the cooking and baking marathon!

Also…What would you make with lots of frozen strawberries and peaches?! Have any fun new recipes I should try?
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Cooking or Baking? Question #57

January 29, 2010 by Laura 29 Comments

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Shew! I’ve been cooking and baking and baking and cooking for hours.

And washing a ton of dishes.

About this cooking and baking (and dish washing) marathon I will say two things:

  1. I love it.
  2. I’m tired.

I’m glad I planned my entire weekend around this marathon. I got a TON of work done today and still have a long way to go. Will I get it all done and still be able to experiment with homemade ketchup? I’ll let you know. 

I’ll let you know if I can still type by Monday. And form complete thoughts. And remember what day it is.

I may actually still be standing at my big freezer with the door open (and my fingers freezing off) trying to figure out where to put all the fruit of my labor. Good problem to have, but wearing gloves for such an activity is advisable.

Anyway, let’s go back to the “I love it” part.

I really do love it. This morning before we left for our home school P.E. time, I started getting out all the ingredients I’d need so I’d be ready to start cooking when I got  home. I got SO excited about the fact that I was going to come home and cook and bake all afternoon that I just got giddy! 

Is it crazy that someone would get so excited about brown rice, chocolate chips and tomato sauce? Well, not altogether, but you know…all laid out on the counter waiting to be made into various yummy dishes?

Later as I was getting the cookies mixed up and into the oven all I could think of was, “I love baking best.” Then, as I was mixing up Cheesy Beef and Rice I was thinking, “I love cooking best.”

But you can’t love both things best, so now I’m trying to figure out which I like best…cooking or baking.

They are practically the same except that baking involves more flour and baking powder and mixing and kneading and often times it involves chocolate. Score one for baking.

Cooking involves meat and veggies and potatoes and rice and spices and creating dishes that nourish your family and make them happy. Score one for cooking.

I think I like them both the same. They are both my favorite.  I can’t help it. I’ve made up my mind.

So…which do you like better? Cooking…or Baking?

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Playing Catch Up and Trying to Get Ahead

January 28, 2010 by Laura 20 Comments

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I’ve been needing to do this for months. 

The problem with trying to get ahead is that before you can get ahead, you have to catch up first. But I’ve been behind, so trying to catch up has been tough, which means that getting ahead has just been a far off dream.

Oh, and that reminds me that I’ve really been wanting to experiment with making my own catch up (or ketchup or however you want to spell it). Maybe once I’ve figured out how to make homemade catch up I will feel caught up?

Is this anything like getting a round tuit?

Is this conversation making anyone else tired, or is it just me?

So here’s my point:  This weekend I’m going to attempt to get ahead in the kitchen. The idea has been in the back of my mind for weeks now and I truly love having big cooking marathons. Once I saw that Crystal and Jessica were challenging others to join them in their Freezer Cooking Days, I decided that caught up or not, I was going to try to get ahead.

I really want to put some food in the fridge and freezer to make our school days easier. Oh, and the snacking. Lately I have felt like there are not nearly enough “easy to grab” snacks available. 

This weekend I plan to let the house fall down around me while I make a huge mess in my kitchen. Actually, I plan to have my boys clean the rest of the house while I make a big mess in the kitchen. They don’t know that yet. But I have a list for them, oh yes I do.

Here’s my list for this weekend:

  • Cheesy Beef and Rice (x2)
  • Beefy Enchilada Bake
  • Sloppy Joe Meat (x2)
  • Corn Dog Muffins
  • Chili
  • Popcorn Chicken (x 2 ready to rewarm for quick lunches)
  • Beef and Cheese Burritos (x 2)
  • Lasagna Casserole
  • Homemade Pizza Pockets
  • Cinnamon Swirl Bread (2 loaves + 2 regular loaves of Honey Whole Wheat Bread)
  • Whole Wheat Tortillas (x 4 – some for burritos and some to have on hand for quesadillas and tostadas)
  • Chocolate Chip Cookies (3 batches for upcoming church activities)
  • Whole Wheat Graham Crackers
  • Strawberry Bread (x2)
  • Whole Wheat and Honey Zucchini Bread (x2)

And now forgive me while I think out loud about some of the things I need to do before I can pull off this big “cooking ahead weekend”. I’d spare you, but it needs to be done and since Matt and I have very limited conversation time these days I hesitate to use up our precious minutes to tell him how much hamburger I need to thaw for my burritos. 

  • Thaw five pounds of ground beef.
  • Thaw three pounds of ground venison.
  • Thaw a package of hot dogs.
  • Grind flour for baked goods.
  • Thaw strawberries for bread.
  • Thaw zucchini for bread
  • Thaw two pounds of butter for cookies and tortillas.
  • Thaw two pounds of cheese for burritos, pizza pockets and casseroles.
  • Soak beans for chili.
  • What am I forgetting?
  • Hey did you fall asleep?

That’s okay…that was a boring list. But it was helpful to me, so thank you for putting up with it.

Okay, well I’m pretty excited about getting all of this done! Think I can pull it off? I’ll share a report and pictures on Monday to show how it went! 

Want me to have the boys take a picture of all the flour that will be in my hair?

Oh, and after all of this…if I’m still standing upright…I REALLY AM going to try to make homemade catch up….ketchup. Maybe?

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High Five Recipes: Super Simple Burritos

January 28, 2010 by Laura 47 Comments

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All this time, I thought burritos was spelled “b-u-r-r-i-t-o-e-s”. Duh, I know. Spelling is not my gift. (You’ve probably figured that out by now.)  I had “burritoes” typed in this recipe, but it just didn’t look right.

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So, I did a swag search for “burritoes” and you know what it asked me?

“Did you mean burritos?”

Well, that answered my question. But sheesh, it’s like the computer is mocking me when it does that, you know?

Super Simple Meat and Cheese BurritosYum

1 pound ground beef, venison or turkey
sea salt to taste
3/4 cup shredded cheese (I use raw white cheddar)
1 cup salsa
10-12 whole wheat tortillas

Brown meat in a large pan. Salt to taste. Remove from heat and stir in salsa and shredded cheese. Spoon 2-3 tablespoons onto a tortilla and wrap.

To Freeze:  Lay burritos barely touching in a 9×13 freezer safe dish. If you are freezing more than one layer of burritos, place wax paper or parchment paper between the layers to prevent them from sticking together.

To Re-Heat:  Place burritos on a baking sheet. If burritos are thawed, warm in the oven for about 15 minutes until heated through and through. If burritos are frozen, leave them in the oven for about 30 minutes. They might get a little crispy on the outside, but yum!

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Super Simple Bean and Cheese Burritos

3 cups cooked black or pinto beans
1 cup salsa
3/4 cups shredded cheese
sea salt to taste
8-10 whole wheat tortillas

Mix beans, salsa, cheese and salt. Wrap 2-3 tablespoons in each tortilla. Freeze and reheat as above.

Not flavorful enough for ya? Add any one or more of the following (which will mean that this recipe will no longer be a High Five Recipe…but who’s counting?):

  • 3 Tablespoons chopped onion
  • 1 teaspoon chili powder
  • 1/2 cup chopped olives
  • 1/2 cup cooked sweet corn

Or, make the ingredients go a little farther by stirring in 1 cup cooked brown rice.

Why This is One of My Very Favorite Recipes:

  • Everyone in my family loves them. The boys cheer when I make them.
  • They are SO easy to make!
  • They freeze VERY well. In fact, instead of making them just before serving time, I much prefer to make a triple batch of these, freeze them and have them ready to go for a quick meal.
  • When I have them made ahead of time, they are the EASIEST lunch to serve:   Heat…eat…done.
  • They are very low in cost, especially if you use beans.
  • They are good and healthy.
  • They are a PERFECT item to take to someone who has just had a baby or a surgery or a whatever. The recipient can warm them up as they need them. I take these to people ALL the time!
  • They keep my children full for longer than ten minutes.
  • Last but not least, I now know how to spell them correctly. ;)
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Becoming a Christian: Share Your Story!

January 27, 2010 by Laura 15 Comments

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I was in the seventh grade. I hadn’t been able to sleep well for days and would instead lay in bed wrestling with my thoughts…knowing I needed to DO something. I wasn’t at peace and I knew why. Even though I was being raised in a Christian home and had been a pretty good kid, I knew I was a sinner. I needed to make things right with God.

It was pretty cool, because while neither of us knew it, my brother and I had BOTH been wrestling with the same lack of peace. We made our decision to commit our lives fully to Christ at the same time. It was a special day when our dad baptized both my brother and me. I remember very clearly the moment I came up out of the water feeling like a new person! Whole…loved…clean…forgiven!

I’ve done a lot more wrestling since that night as I’ve learned more and studied more and grown into a deeper understanding of what it means to “take up my cross daily and follow Jesus“. 

I remember especially wrestling during my college years, when I was out on my own and needed to figure out for myself what I believed and why I believed it. I’m very thankful for that time, even though it was quite painful to tear myself away and make my faith my very own.

When my babies were born, it was then I realized how REAL God is and that truly, only He could create…well…anything so amazing and perfect.

The most humbling, terrifying, horrible, incredible and beautiful time of my spiritual life came while my mom was sick and dying. It was during those months of intense pain and grief that I learned to accept God’s comfort in a way that only He can give it. He gives His comfort at the level that we need it. At that time, I needed an incredible measure of comfort…and He gave it. I would lay in my bed and sob and cry out to Him, then I would feel His comfort and love so real and full as if there was no one else in the world and all the comfort He had in His entire Being was given to me at that moment. As an incredible result, all I could do was praise Him. He truly turned my mourning into dancing. It is powerful to feel so much pain and so much love, comfort…yes…even joy at the very same time. Powerful. 

God is so real. His love is absolutely unconditional. His forgiveness is for everyone. No matter what. I hope you know the same God I know. If not, please search for Him. He is an awesome God!
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So, what’s your story? How did you come to know Christ? Share with us, either by writing about it on your blog and linking up with us, or by leaving a comment on this post.

Also, please visit as many blog links as you can to be encouraged by everyone’s story!

  1. Jodi at One Blessed Mama (Lord, You’re All I’ve Got)
  2. Carrie Smyth at Heavenly Homesteading
  3. Hallee the Homemaker
  4. Laurie
  5. Rebekah
  6. Jolene ~ A Random Woman’s Life
  7. Shonda
  8. Jenna at Homemaking Pilgrim
  9. Jen
  10. Trusting in His Name
  11. A Voice Crying Out
  12. Stephanie
  13. Barb
  14. Travelin Pilgrim
  15. Elizabeth
  16. Melanie
  17. You’re Next!

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Snuggle Time with Kingdom Parables

January 26, 2010 by Laura 6 Comments

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If I can brace myself for the stinky socks hiding under the beds and thirty-second-toot-tag…

(Explanation:  One boy toots and approximately thirty seconds later another one feels as though he’s been “tagged” to toot…and then thirty seconds later…yeah you get it. Four boys, remember? And NO I’m not feeding them sugar free ice cream.  Far from it.)

Anyway, if I can get over the hidden stinky socks and thirty-second-toot-tag…I love getting my boys all snuggled into their blankets at night and reading a chapter of our latest read-aloud book.

They love it. They beg for it. They actually hurry up and get their teeth brushed so that we’ll have time for it.

One of our favorite books…one that they ask for over and over…is this one:

kingdomparables

Kingdom Parables was a gift from a grandparent a few years ago and the boys just LOVE it. The author re-wrote several different parables of Jesus using animals as characters and understandable situations that kids can relate to. Then, the actual Biblical account is written at the end of each “story” so kids and parents can discuss the “real version”…and so that we can talk about how to apply Jesus’ teaching to our lives.

I love this book…and wanted to let you know about it in case you’ve never seen it before. Kingdom Parables…check it out. 

The beauty of this book and it’s stories overshadows the effect of Thirty-Second-Toot-Tag. That’s why I keep going back for more. That and the fact that even though my boys’ room smells like a boys’ room…there’s nothing much better than our nightly snuggle time.

So, what are your favorite read-aloud books?
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Gratituesday: The Field House

January 25, 2010 by Laura 14 Comments

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It’s winter. It’s cold. It’s very, very cold. There’s snow all over the ground and the wind is trying to blow me from my driveway into the neighbor’s yard. But there’s snow in the neighbor’s yard too, and I’m not too keen on being blown into it.

Therefore, the boys and I have been cooped up in the house for weeks. While I very much love being at home and I get so much more done when I’m at home for long periods of time…there comes a time when I need to get out…and the boys just need to RUN long and hard for a long, long time.

During the winter, running usually just takes place inside the house…up and down stairs…and there are usually nerf guns involved. I’m okay with that…but after a few weeks…the walls start to creep in on a person. Not to mention that being hit with a nerf bullet while I’m trying to type can make me lose my train of thought.

This is why I am so thankful that my college town has a field house. The college owns it, but during certain parts of the day, it is open to the community. A few other ladies and I have been meeting there a couple times a week lately to take walks around the track. And the kids? They run. And they run and they run.

fieldhouse2smI wanted to get a shot of how big the place is so I backed way up…but do you see that little spot of yellow on the big green turf? That’s Justus running and running and running. Then look up a little and do you see a railing and two tiny little gray spots up there? That’s two of my friends walking. I’ll join them in a minute, but right now I’m taking a picture. 

fieldhouse1smHere’s Asa kicking a soccer ball in the baseball batting area. No, I didn’t put him in the cage to punish him. He wants to kick the ball as hard as he can and within the netting he can do that without having to chase it very far. And also, after he kicks the ball as hard as he can, it doesn’t have a chance of hitting someone (like me) in the face because the net keeps it in. Very cool.

These breaks from being cooped up at home have been so refreshing. The ladies and I have wonderful visits as we walk, not to mention we’re getting good exercise. The kids run and run and run, have fun their friends and get really, really tired. The stir crazy feeling we have at home goes away for a while. It’s wonderful! (Psst, local readers! If you want to join us sometime email me for details!)

I’m SO thankful that we have a field house available to us. We may just get through the winter in one piece!
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Becoming a Better Help Meet: Let’s Get Real

January 24, 2010 by Laura 19 Comments

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I loved all of your responses about how you are a helper to your husband. It was wonderful to establish that our role as wives is simply to be our husband’s helper. Thank you. I think we can all be encouraged to read how each of us work to meet our husband’s individual needs.

I’ve read a quite few marriage books, both from Christian and secular perspectives. 

They were all pretty good books…but after reading them and trying to apply them…I often felt guilt and frustration. Guilt because after studying and learning about how to be a great help meet…I STILL fall way short of perfection. Frustration because there were still parts about being a help meet described in the books that I just didn’t get. How do I do this again? Why can’t I do a better job of this? What is the matter with me?

Why can’t I smile at my husband adoringly every time he’s in the room? Why can’t I always meet him at the door when he gets home from work, throw my arms around him and give him a big affectionate kiss, hand him his slippers and the newspaper and massage his shoulders for thirty minutes on the sofa? Why do I STILL sometimes act irrationally about some of the  things he does that frustrate me? For that matter, why…when I’m trying to do all these wonderful things to be a good help meet to him does he still do some of the same things that frustrate me? Shouldn’t the way I’m being such a good help-meet make him change all his frustrating ways?

After much prayer and reflection sprinkled in with strong urges to kick, scream or break something, it has finally occurred to me that while I’m still striving toward being a perfect help-meet, I am never going to be perfect. My husband is never going to be perfect. Our marriage is never going to be perfect. We are two imperfect individuals, designed by God to be and to think very differently. 

Wives, some days we’re going to have sad hearts. Some days our husbands are really going to make us mad. Sometimes they will say something that hurts our feelings. Some days we will have given so much of ourselves to our home, work and children, we will feel like we have nothing to give to our husbands at the end of the day. 

The problem then is not in our emotions and feelings.  We will all continue to occasionally feel sad, tired, mad, hurt, frustrated, over-worked, annoyed, some of the above, all of the above. None of those feelings are wrong or sinful. They’re normal, because life and marriage are full of real moments and real hard work. 

The problem and sin comes in how we respond to those feelings and emotions.  We can say something ugly to our husbands. We can have a pity party for ourselves all day and sulk and pout. We can be short with our children. We can ignore our husbands or try to “punish” them. We can whine to a bunch of our friends about “men” and “just wait till I tell you what he did this time”. All of these responses are wrong and sinful. They may tend to be our natural responses…the easier responses…but, they are sinful.

Instead, get on your knees and beg God to show you how you can respond to your feelings with grace and mercy. Anything less will just throw us into a well of self-righteous pity. I’ve been there and done that. While choosing to be merciful is A MUCH HARDER DECISION, in the long run (and because we’re trying to let God help us do things His way) our marriages will be so much more peaceful when we choose what is right.

Share With Us:  Just like we did in this Real Mom post, let’s all reassure each other that none of us is perfect, nor do we have perfect husbands or perfect marriages. Leave a comment to let us know that you, your husband and your marriage are all real…with bumps and road blocks (and times of bliss and merriment too). This is NOT A MEN BASHING OPPORTUNITY.  This is a time to encourage each other and to let each other know that as Christian women, we are all in this together.

Challenge Yourself:  Think of some of the ways you respond to your husband when you are frustrated about something he’s done. Pray! – and start planning  NOW for how you can handle that these situations with mercy and grace. 

We’ll talk more soon about some specifics and “how-tos” of choosing mercy and peace in our moments of frustration. In the meantime…let’s all take a quick moment to share that we are all real so that none of us feels like we are the only ones in a real marriage.

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Menu Plan for the Week

January 24, 2010 by Laura 4 Comments

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I often receive emails asking what my kids eat for snacks. To help answer that question and to give you more healthy snack ideas for your family, I’ll try to include a few snack ideas each week on my menu plan.

This week, we happen to have bunches of organic apples on hand (from Azure Standard, my health food co-op). We’ll probably be having apples with a side of apples for many of our snacks. And, as a treat for the boys some afternoon, I will probably make Caramel Apple Dip to go with them.

Also, it’s been a few weeks since I made Whole Wheat Vanilla Wafers. Maybe I’d better double this recipe though? 

If we get a hankering to “drink a brownie” I’ll make us all a mug of Warm Chocolate Soother. We are very likely to have a hankering to “drink a brownie”. Although we usually don’t use the word hankering. 

Beyond those ideas, we have a lot of raisins, clementines and apples. Lots and lots of apples. I LOVE having apples available for snacks when I can get my hands on them.

Here’s our menu for this week:

Sunday, January 24
Oatmeal, bananas
Venison roast, potatoes, carrots, gravy, cornbread muffins
Out to Southside Grille with our small group

Monday, January 25
Whole wheat waffles, blueberries
Chicken-vegetable soup, crispy cheese crackers
Chicken fried steak strips, mashed potatoes,gravy, steamed broccoli and cauliflower

Tuesday, January 26
Homemade crunchy oat cereal with dried raisins and cranberries (recipe found in Think Breakfast…Outside the Box ebook)
Beef and cheese burritoes, fresh pineapple
Garlic shrimp pasta, green beans

Wednesday, January 27
Simple sourdough biscuits with butter and honey, applesauce
Tuna casserole, peas
Chicken enchiladas, tossed salad

Thursday, January 28
Banana bread, pears
Popcorn chicken, fruit-kefir smoothies
Spaghetti, tossed salad, corn

Friday, January 29
Scrambled eggs, turkey bacon (that I bought with a KYOOPON), oranges
Homemade pizza pockets, peaches
Spinach pasta alfredo, fruit salad

Saturday, January 30
Whole wheat and honey zucchini bread
Leftover buffet
Cheddar ranch burgers, potato wedges, carrot sticks

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