When I mentioned on this post about whether or not WE should get a WE…I told you that WE usually don’t spend $200 on our boys for Christmas. Some of you were curious about what that meant exactly. How much do we spend on each boy, etc?
I decided it would be a great discussion with all of you here.
After giving it some thought, I came to the conclusion that every year has been different…we probably have spent $200 total on our four boys for Christmas. But definitely not on only one gift. I would say that we have probably averaged about $50 per child each year.
We usually get each boy one “bigger” thing each. By “bigger” I’m talking a $10-$25 gift. Especially when they’re little…the “big” gift is usually something as simple as a $10 sing-and-play-back microphone.
THEN…we spend the rest on things they need. Thankfully our boys don’t seem to mind getting socks and jammies for Christmas. It gives them more presents to open…and new jammies are FUN!
(Side note: Our Christmas spending budget is quite low overall. By buying jammies and such for the kids for Christmas, those costs actually come out of our clothing budget.)
We fill their stockings with things I’ve found on clearance throughout the year, and fun food treats I splurge on through Azure Standard.
Between grandparents and aunts and uncles…our boys have so many presents to open they always feel like they’ve hit the jack-pot (because they have)!
We haven’t felt badly about spending $50 each on the boys at Christmas because seriously…we hardly buy them ANYTHING throughout the year. Anything. We don’t need to. We have more hand-me-down clothes and toys than we know what to do with. What a blessing. So the $50 we spend on each boy seems pretty reasonable. AND it’s SO much fun for Matt and I to decide on a “splurge” type gift for the kids at Christmas since we never buy them during the year!
Now, what we spend on our extended family varies…but we usually try to make our gifts for others if we can (last year’s ideas here and more on this year’s ideas soon).
As far as what Matt and I spend on each other…we are sorta boring that way (and I seem like such an unhappy wife as a result, huh?!). Last year he bought me software that I could use for this website, and I bought him a new tool. And then our gifts were tax write-offs. Best Christmas presents ever. :) This year we may not exchange gifts unless we think of something we need. (Maybe I’ll ask for new kitchen towels?)
SO…how about you? I realize that some of you may spend much more on your kids than we do…some of you less. That’s okay with me. What have you found that works best for your family?






