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Gratituesday: Quick Trip

November 4, 2013 by Laura 10 Comments

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When my dad called last week and told me that he had some shocking news, my heart skipped a beat. No one likes to receive a phone call like that. :(

As it turns out, my 30 year old cousin, had passed away the day before. He was a delightful Christian young man who had fought physical ailments, including severe seizures, for years. As sad as I was to hear that he was gone, I couldn’t help but be thankful that he is now free. The memories flooded back as I thought back to the days I had spent with him growing up. I babysat many, many days for him and his siblings. Back when I was a teenager, I had loved caring for those kids!

And now Garrett was gone. His funeral was to be Friday. I felt a huge tug to be there – to see his siblings that I love so much. To see his mom and his dad. His grandpa. Yes, I wanted to be there.

By some miracle, we had a free weekend. Matt was out of town with the college soccer team, but the four boys and I headed south to spend time with family and to celebrate Garrett’s life. Asa, our 16 year old, drove most of the way. That is another Gratituesday post in and of itself. I have a kid old enough to drive me to Kansas and back.  Wowza.

I am so thankful we were able to go. It was worth the trip just for the hugs. I loved hearing from Garrett’s sister as she told her new husband, “Laura babysat us all the time. She’s the one that made us awesome monkey bread.” Aw, how sweet that she remembered. :)

It’s amazing, isn’t it, that funerals become wonderful reunions with loved ones? In addition, while we were in Kansas, my younger boys got to have a great time with their cousins, my older boys got to work at my Dad’s Saturday auction (he’s a realtor/auctioneer), we got to go to my nephew’s birthday party, and I got to have a talk a mile a minute because we only have one hour together visit with my great friend Amy from The Finer Things in Life. We arrived home just in time to set our clocks back, hit the bed, and welcome Matt home from his trip.

God is so good to give us the energy and ability to make this trip happen. While we will all miss Garrett, I am so thankful that as we celebrated his life together with family and friends, then have some bonus time with others we love!

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Gratituesday: Baking

October 28, 2013 by Laura 12 Comments

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I know it sounds silly, but this week I’m very thankful for the gift of baking.

This is such a fun time of year to stir together yummy baked goods and casseroles. I spent hours today in the kitchen experimenting with new recipes to share and I loved every minute of it! I know not everyone enjoys baking as much as I do, but wow is it a fun activity for me.

I’m thankful for my houseful of men who love to eat. I’m thankful for the blessing of a pantry full of delicious ingredients. I’m thankful for cooler weather, cinnamon, comfort, and well…butter. What can I say? :)

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Just wait till I share this Oatmeal Raspberry Bar recipe I tried today!

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Gratituesday: Sunrise

October 21, 2013 by Laura 7 Comments

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This week, our church has brought in Jerry and Lynn Jones to present their Relationships Matter seminar. Sunday through Wednesday of this week, we are blessed to go to hear them speak. I love that what they have to say is relevant in so many areas of life.

I loved this statement shared last night regarding walking through trying times in life:

The best way to find the sun is to head east into the darkness so that you can catch the sun coming up.

What I hear in that is exactly what I feel God doing with me on my journey to let go of self. I can avoid doing battle, shrug off my struggles, put up my guard, and carry on as I have been. In many ways, it seems so much easier. Taking the hard path? Doing what is difficult? Seeking a whole heart that is fully God’s, while letting go of the control I so desperately want to hold onto? Why would I willingly go down a road so dark and difficult when I could just take the short-cut and avoid digging into the root of my sin?

If I really want to see the glory of the sunrise, if I want true healing and wholeness that can only come by way of full surrender to our creator – I will walk the harder road. I’ll journey down the path that seems dark because of all the unknowns through new territory. I’ll even walk it confidently because I am guided by the One who sees the way clearly.

The blessed irony of walking the difficult road is that letting go of control and grabbing the hand of the One who holds me while I stumble along is actually much easier than trying to navigate the road on my own cleverly constructed map. My own map has become a series of unsolvable mazes and dead-ends. It may seem well lit, but the roads lead to nowhere. Been there, done that. Now which way should I turn?

I’m choosing to head east. You’re walking me through this, Lord? You know where the potholes and branches are that I need to avoid? You see the dangers ahead and protect me from them? You know exactly where I’m supposed to turn and what I am supposed to do along the way? I give you the control then. Lead me, Lord.

I’ll joyfully keep taking steps toward the east, knowing that what awaits me on the other side is a beauty so radiant it can only been seen after looking through the black.

A glorious sunrise!

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Gratituesday: Hot Drinks

October 14, 2013 by Laura 18 Comments

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I feel like this is a silly thing to be grateful for, but hey, it’s the little things, right?

I am typically cold from September until May. Slippers, long johns, wool socks, and sweaters are my best friends during these months. Beyond those, I love my hot drinks. Hot tea, Hot Cocoa, and Crio Bru really hit the spot, and yes, it even appears that I can now add coffee to that list. (Who starts liking coffee at the age of 40? This girl, apparently.)

What I really love about hot drinks is that now I associate them with my Bible reading time. There is something so comforting about enjoying my favorite mug filled with a warm drink while I spend time in the Word each morning. Then later in the day, even if I’m not able to sit down again to read, fixing a hot drink triggers memories of Truths I read earlier in the day and reminds me to keep my focus on the One I’m learning to completely surrender my life to.

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Yep, sometimes I also share my Bible time with a Lego army.

So hot drinks remind me of Jesus? Well no wonder I am so grateful for them. :)  Are you a fan of hot drinks?

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Stop

October 7, 2013 by Laura 11 Comments

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And by stop, I mean literally – stop. Right where you are. Breathe deeply. Sit still. Listen.

Don’t tell me that you can’t. That you don’t have time. That you don’t know how. I am was the queen of can’t, don’t have time, and don’t know how to stop. I am have been the GO!GO!GO! girl. I’m not saying that I don’t empathize with your busy life and your long to-do list. Oh how I understand. I’m just saying that we don’t get to use those excuses anymore. Those excuses keep us stuck on the path of pain and frustration. It’s the path led by self, and its road takes us on a journey to emptiness.

The opposite of GO! is stop. This is what I have to do several times each day as I retrain my thought patterns and turn my heart away from self and toward God’s leading. The truth is that I must make time to stop because I don’t have time in my day to waste thinking anxious thoughts. I don’t have time in my day to worry. I don’t have time in my day to be frustrated over issues I have no control over.

But there are people to care for, jobs to do, meals to cook, bills to pay, and the never-ending to-do list to accomplish! Go! Get it done! We must plow through and work and keep saying yes to people and worrying about how to make it all happen!

NO.  Stop.

We cannot do this without Jesus. Stop. Breathe. Pray. Every time you feel anxious. Every time you are afraid. Every time you feel inferior. Every time you feel like you’re not doing enough. Every time you have to make a decision. Every time. Stop.  Breathe Jesus in. Ask the Spirit to guide you. Relax in His presence. Walk with Him. Accept His gift of peace.

Do you remember my post several months ago called Pull Up a Chair? Can I encourage you to go read it again? God has so much to teach us. His words are so rich. His voice is so powerful. His works sustain us. Nothing we do apart from Him accomplishes anything (John 15:5). We need Jesus for our daily survival and so that we can thrive while we serve.

While God continues to teach me and while I am recognizing that I still have so much to learn – I can not tell you how grateful I am that I am learning to stop frequently during the day to re-focus. I still work hard. I still accomplish everything God needs me to each day. In fact, I do believe I am more productive now than I have ever been before.

I stop so that I can seek Him. I stop so that I can learn. I stop so that I can hear truth. I stop so that I can go.  Only now I am going in the direction God points – the road that leads to peace.

Continue reading: Pride

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Gratituesday: A Switchfoot Surprise

September 30, 2013 by Laura 11 Comments

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We’ve been to a Newsboys concert, and we’ve been to see TobyMac. The boys loved them both. (As did the parents.)  Next on the “really want to see” list was Switchfoot. But their concerts were nowhere close to us, so there wasn’t really an opportunity. After a little bit of research, the boys sort of forgot about it for a while.

But Matt and I didn’t. We checked their website every few months, just to see if taking the boys would be a possibility sometime before Asa graduated. (He’s already a junior. It’s stuff like this that we have on our “do while all the kids are still home” list. Especially since our family really enjoys music.)

Persistence pays off. While there wasn’t anything super close by, and while of course the dates of the closest Switchfoot concert hit smack in the middle of soccer season – we knew we had to make it happen.

The hardest part was keeping the plans a secret from the boys. We decided not to tell them until last minute. It was perfect!

The night before we were planning to leave, we went up to the boys’ room for prayer time. I was carrying their four lunch bags (which each included some special treats for the road and a concert ticket). We handed them their bags, and told them that before bed they needed to make sandwiches and add them to their lunch bags for a trip we were taking tomorrow. We were met with looks of confusion from all four of them – just what we were going for. :)

They started looking through their bags, excited about the food. Then one by one, they figured out what was on the piece of paper stuck inside their bags. “SWITCHFOOT!???! Are you serious??!” Yep. Tomorrow.

For the record, it’s not a great idea to spring a huge surprise on your kids if you anticipate them going to sleep anytime soon. Oh well, they could sleep on the road.

It was a great and much needed getaway. Matt was even able to visit a high school along the way to do some soccer recruiting. It’s always good to make our trips multi-purpose, right? Plus we met some friends for dinner before the show.

The concert was awesome!

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Check out Malachi in the pic below. He decided that nothing less than a tie and suit coat would be good enough for Switchfoot. Yep, he traveled in formal attire all day long. :)

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In case you’re wondering, Elias really does put ketchup on his ketchup. The kid loves the stuff.

It was a perfect family outing and day off from (most) responsibilities. We told the boys to enjoy their bonus day off from school – and to remember this day later in the year when they are inside doing Geometry while public school has a snow day. ;)

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Raw

September 23, 2013 by Laura 23 Comments

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It’s not like I’ve tried to hide anything. I’m pretty sure you all know I’m as real as they come.

I post about the times I burn dinner, shoot ketchup into the living room, overflow the bathtub, don’t get around to sweeping my kitchen floor for two and a half weeks, and yell at my kids for not going to the van when I’ve asked them three or seven times. I’ve made it clear that I haven’t a clue how to fix my hair, how to decorate my living room walls, or how to layer shirts fashionably (unless we’re talking about putting a t-shirt under a hoodie, because I have mastered that one). My front closet smells worse than a boy’s locker room and looks like a used sporting goods store threw up inside.

But being real and being raw are two different things. Being real means that I admit that I’m not perfect and that I make mistakes. Being raw means that I get on my knees, expose my weaknesses, and recognize my absolute need for a Savior.

I didn’t know how much I needed to work on “self” until slowly (or quickly, depending on how it has felt on any given day), God began breaking down walls of pride, peeling away layers of selfish sin, and teaching me how to be more fully His.

I remember asking Him to help me understand His power at work in my life. I naively assumed that meant He would reveal a couple of scriptures to me, and give me some “wow God you’re so neat and powerful” moments. Right? Because God’s lessons do usually come to us come in fluffy, bright packages that are bursting with bubbles, confetti, and goose feathers. Right. 

In many ways, the past year has been very difficult for me. While I’ve mostly been able to carry on with life as normal – caring for my family, writing and sharing with you here on this site, and participating in various ministries – I’ve also been in the midst of some hard core spiritual and emotional battles. I am weary. I am worn. But because of Jesus, I am victorious.

There is great beauty in becoming broken for Christ. His healing and fulfillment can only come when we absolutely surrender ourselves and become open to what He wants us to learn. As He prunes away at the pieces of my heart and life that are unfruitful, I find myself relearning what it is to be a godly wife, mother, friend, and servant. How to love as Christ loves. How to walk my days with the Spirit as a guide.

And through it all, I find that my areas of weakness truly are glorious, because that is where Jesus can shine through me best. That is where pride dissolves and humility reigns.

While God’s lessons aren’t without pain, He has provided me a soft place to fall. I would not trade what I am experiencing to become my old self again. He is faithful to walk this journey with me and to provide who and what I need during every painful and victorious moment.

Today, I’m thankful to be broken.  To become broken is the only way to become whole.

Continued here:  Guilt

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Gratituesday: The Grammy Jammies

September 16, 2013 by Laura 19 Comments

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We’ve started experiencing some fall weather around here, which has had our boys digging in boxes and drawers for long-sleeved PJs to sleep in. Malachi appeared one evening in my very favorite pair of all of his jammies, and shucks if I didn’t immediately have to drop everything I was doing and squeeze the life out of him for several minutes.

What’s so special about this pair of pajamas? Well first of all, I think we can agree that kids in pajamas are about the snuggliest and cutest around. So any pair of PJs on my kids makes my heart flop. But it just so happens that this particular pair of jammies was worn by all four of our boys. All of them.  Asa got them as a gift when he was about five years old. He wore them for a couple of years, then when he outgrew them, they became Justus’. Then Elias inherited them. Now Malachi is wearing them.

Let’s all pause a moment and recognize with amazement that such a well made article of clothing exists, and that it has survived in our house through eleven years and four boys without being torn, stained, lost, hung on a flag pole, used as a sling shot, or stretched across the hallway to create a catapult. Indeed, for an entire decade, we have somehow kept track of both the top and the bottom of this matching set of sleepwear, and the elastic is not stretched to the size of Santa. If only we could pass down tennis shoes in this way. Shoot, I’d even settle for a pair of shoes that last through one season and one boy without the sole flopping off or the toe poking through or the foot growing by three sizes in one afternoon. But anyway…

Malachi was thrilled to hear that what he was wearing had been worn by all of his brothers, even the one who is now well over six feet tall. All of the boys chimed in with “oh yeah, I remember those pajamas.” We all inhaled deeply, joined hands, and enjoyed a moment together as we gazed at each other with tears in our eyes. By that I mean that the pajama conversation lasted about four seconds because the boys quickly moved on with life by sticking their heads in the fridge to find something else to eat before bed.

But I wasn’t quite ready to let it rest. “Asa,” I asked, “Do you remember who gave you those?”

He hesitated, because as I said, he had already moved on to thinking about his cheese stick and the pajama conversation was so thirty seconds ago. But then he remembered. “Oh yeah. It was Grammy wasn’t it?”

Indeed. My mom had picked those out for her firstborn grandson. She had no idea at the time that the pajamas would make their way through four growing and busy boys. And we had no idea how special they would become someday – worn so many years later by the grandson who never had the privilege of meeting her.

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Who knew a simple pair of pajamas would be such a treasure?

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Gratituesday: The College Class

September 9, 2013 by Laura 27 Comments

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Our oldest son is taking his first college class.

asaWe’ve homeschooled Asa since he began kindergarten (yesterday). We decided that now that he is a junior in high school, helping him get a few college credits under his belt while giving him some classroom experience would be ideal for him. The classes he takes at the college while he’s a high school student will serve as dual credit classes (meeting requirements for both high school and college). Sweet! Plus, as a high school student, he receives a healthy discount on one class per semester at our local college. Saving money, knocking out a few classes, starting college in two years with several credits already out of the way? It’s all good.

I really didn’t give it much thought at first. We filled out all the paperwork to get him enrolled. Sure, it was weird helping him fill out a college application already (he’s 16) – but we had a plan and we were ready to execute. He was ready. Application accepted, class chosen, necessary information obtained. He was to be at his Basic Speech class on the York College campus on Tuesday, August 24 at 8:30 am.

It wasn’t until I dropped him off the first day and saw him walking across campus – the very campus I walked across during my four years of college, the campus where I met Matt, the campus that holds so many dear memories – that I forgot how to breathe. When did he get so tall-smart-handsome-mature-grown up? Overnight, I promise.

It’s a great feeling, knowing that he’s able to handle a college level course. So far, he’s rockin’ this class. He’s off to a great start! :)

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Gratituesday: Bonus Day

September 2, 2013 by Laura 7 Comments

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Until last night, I had completely forgotten that Monday was a holiday. As a homeschooling (school anytime, anywhere) and self-employed (work anytime, anywhere) family – holidays like Labor Day don’t usually mean that much to us (until we try to figure out why we didn’t get any mail).

As it turned out, Matt had a day off from soccer with the college team, so he was home most of the day getting caught up on other work. We didn’t do school work officially – although I kept catching my eleven year old reading science books in his spare time. :)  We caught up on laundry, thoroughly cleaned the kitchen, and for a little while this afternoon – I sat on the porch soaking in the sun and having extra time with God (and then with Malachi who came outside to see what I was up to). A couple of college students came to join us for our grilled bbq chicken dinner, some of us played cards until bedtime, and in general, we enjoyed a low-key day.

Since I’d forgotten we didn’t have any major outside responsibilities today, it was like being given a bonus day. Now, instead of starting a new work/school week on Monday, we’re starting on Gratituesday. How ’bout that?

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